Childcare nightmare

My parents live in Ashford, I live in a Bearsted. It seemed simple that they would help with childcare when we moved here 10years ago.

Concern Brock there are constant, near daily accidents in the m20, especially northbound from the coast. Daily there are delays in the alternative route a20.
we’ve had to cut back on the childcare as the stress and unreliability of the not knowing how long a simple 20 minute journey will take- frequently over an hour.

The congestion locally is terrible. Living in our village we have lorries, trucks trying to get through small village roads and cars frequently speeding.The impact of Brocknis making me seriously considering moving out of the area as what was once a one off is now seeming a regular occurance.